Only 22 or Already 22
I turn 22 today!! Yes, it is very exciting Yes, I am still over-enthusiastic about birthdays However, now, with enthusiasm comes nervousness and a sense of unknown responsibilities. I am not a teenager anymore You must be thinking that I crossed that threshold about four years ago but honestly leaving 19 and entering the 20’s seems the same Technically I am an adult now but do I feel like one? No In my head, I am not quite sure of what is expected of me right now. Am I supposed to be this mature young lady who knows what she wants (okay maybe yes) or am I supposed to be on a learning curve where I get my experiences from failing at times and standing back up on my feet (also maybe yes because that’s life and no one’s perfect)? Two scenarios Both equally appropriate But who gets to make the choice? The society? My parents? My extended family? My friends? Or I get to decide that for myself? Modern age and a progressive world would say ‘it’s your life, y...